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Divorce and Re-marriage

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Divorce and Re-marriage

Postby eena64 » Sat Jul 02, 2011 12:19 am

Namaskar

II Hari Om II

First of all, thank you for setting this forum up. It looks great.
I have had a very interesting life. I am going to turn 26 soon. Because of my life incidences, I have succumbed to the fact that people are always going to cheat me. I feel, I am naïve and dumb. Please show some light on my life. Anything that I could do to change it, apart from working really hard. My questions are very straightforward:
Will I marry a nice guy again? Will he be Indian or American?
Will I have a great career enough to make good money and be independent.
Will I have kids?
Will I live in India or America.
Will my second marriage last?

Birthdate: July 22, 1985 6:15 am Rajahmundry, Andhrapradesh India
My first marriage was an arranged one. We had our profiles on a matrimonial website. We chatted for a while on the phone and then my father-in-law particularly (who is very social), would call me everyday apart from his son. I used to speak to the father and son almost every day for 3 -4hours on the phone. My father –in-law literally obliged me into marriage by constantly reminding me how much his son loves me. When I liked my fiancé then, I agreed to get engaged. That is when my fiancé revealed to me that there is a small problem. He said he had filariasis in his leg when he was very young. But there is almost unnoticeable difference between left and right leg and sometimes he get slight pain. I was devastated when he told me this just before the engagement. Yet, I was madly in ove with him by then as we were speaking for a long time. I overlooked everything and decided to marry him. And then after marriage we did not have first night. We directly went to honeymoon to an exotic country. At honeymoon, I was surprised that he was not at all interesting in have sex with me. He avoided sex. At one point he also told me to put on my clothes – his excuse was that – he hates naked skin touching his body. This was very traumatic to me as I had very high expectation. We were speaking perfectly finely on the phone every day. But in person, he was different. I was extremely upset. I hated my body for being ugly. I hated myself that I could not attract my husband. He was living in US for more than 10 years. I lived with my in-laws for a month and he went back to America. Directly after our honeymoon. After 1 month, my visa came and I went to US. I was shocked to see his house. It was like a pig sty. Clothes, papers, important documents, passports food, garbage everything thrown on the floor. I noticed that he had no interest at all in having sex with me. 1 year went by as I kept trying everything. He would always be depressed about his job. Depressed, stressed and overworked all the time. He would love to go to movies or restaurant but when it came to sex, he showed zero interest. I then started tracking his internet history and the websites he was visiting. I noticed that he was seeing a weird kind of porn called “FEMDOM” or “Dominatrix” Mistress etc (there is no penetrative sex involved). It looked ridiculous and nonsensical to me. I couldn’t handle that. When asked, he said those are the only things that pleased him. He asked me to try it. He knew that I hated it, so he felt that whatever I try to do is only fake. He was only liking internet porn and the women on webcam. Every night he would sneak out of the bedroom and finish him off watching weird porn. I would weep in my bedroom because I was always awake whereas he thought I was asleep when he sneaked out. However, he was very nice to me. He never scolded me much for anything. He avoided any fight with me. He used to call me lovingly with a cute name and would take me to movies, pay for my college education, help me in all ways. We lived like good friends. I hid this from my parents and family for three years blaming myself for everything. I don’t know why. I was so mesmerized by his soft spoken nature that I forgot the track of what is right and what is wrong. Finally when I revealed this to my sister and parents their immediate reaction was to divorce him. They all think he cheated me. But I still find it hard to believe that he cheated me. I think that he is just different. He took good care of me I think. My psychiatrist was teling me too that my husband had cheated me and that I am almost hypnotized and traumatized by him. I am divorcing him. I feel lonely in the world with no friends. I feel dumb and naïve. He agreed to pay my college fees here in US for the next two semesters and some living allowance until I get my job. I have lost all confidence in myelf that I can find another good guy. I was a loving daughter who grew up with traditional values while having a modern outlook. But our wedding was a perfect mismatch. Its more than three years now when I have finally come out of the house. I want to be successful in my career anlive independently. I want to marry a nice loving guy again Will I have a happy marriage in future? Please help. I am in the worst time of my life. I got an internship and I was exited. When I came there people treated me extremely badly. They call me dumb and if I am trying to resolve a task and help, they tell me that “its okay, we will do it” and they leave angrily. I am not able to communicate clearly. I was once a confident and bright and enthusiastic woman. Now I feel helpless. \
Please help me and guidce me if I do have good future ahead of me. I wonder if I am going through saade saati for the past few years!

Thank you so much for your time.

Sincerely
Renu
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Re: Divorce and Re-marriage

Postby govardhanvt » Sat Jul 02, 2011 7:58 am

Ms Renu

I had gone through your horoscope . There is saying in english Look before you leap. It is not your fault , but it is all due to Karmic factors which played a such a role in your life. Rahu placement in Karmastan, can be considered to have to havoc in your life. Not only that you are running Rahu Dasa period. Kalatrastandipathi ie the 7th lord is seen to be exalted but under the influence of Rahu. All that happened to you sofar is mainly due to some previous Janma Nag Dosha. Your 7th house is very much afflicted by malefics ( natural) as well as functional malefic Jupiter. You should understand that though you have vigour and power, everything in your life is controlled by the supreme god. By nature you are powerful , aggressive and at times you show high sense of patience and forebearance, when is not required and you tend you act with impatience and aggressively when you should have controlled yourself and acted with patience. I donot blame you for this, but this is due to heavy influence of exalted Saturn in your lagna . It should be appreciated the enemy to Saturn , that is Sun is seen to placed in the lagna along with aggressive Mars in debilitation and Jupiter in debiliation aspecting that combination. Normally, this marriage should and ought have been smooth. But the presence of 6th lord jupiter(Rogastanadhipathi) that too in debilitation, had to give a life partner who should be normally sexually impotent . However Jupiter placement in that house and lord of the house Saturn being exalted , nothing much could be said about the guy. Going from the placement of MOON I am of the view your second marriage could be succesful one, but I suggest you concentrate on your studies and work and think of marriage after 2013

You have not indicated the date when you walked out of the house and whether you had legal separation and the date on which it happened.
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Re: Divorce and Re-marriage

Postby Priyansh Valecha » Sun Jul 03, 2011 7:20 pm

Dear Renu,
Namaste,
First of all, i am really saddened by reading the event details in your marital life. I wish i could have seen your chart before the marriage. But this is how destiny is and we all in some way or other become prey to destiny. Before giving my inputs on your chart, i want to mention that i can be bit straight forward in reading the chart. Don't get depressed with it but just understand the reality of life and adapt your self according to it. Also i will suggest to perform the remedies prescribed by me in this post. Now here are my inputs:
1. There is Sarpa Dosha in your chart as there are three or more malefics in kendra to Lagna. This Sarpa dosha is broken by Jupiter being placed in 7th house, but this Jupiter is very weak and needs to be strengthened to break this yoga. Also i will suggest you to chant two mantras on regular basis with full faith in God. The mantras are:
(i) Aastikam Munirajam Namo Namah
(ii) Om namo bhagvate balabhadraya

2. Saturn is your Atmakaraka. The person having Saturn as Atmakaraka is bound to see lots of sorrow in life as it is the unfulfilled karma left. Now this Saturn is with UL so the unfulfilled karma is related to marriage. Now Saturn is in Libra sign, in it exaltation sign, but as it is retrograde, will give results of a debilitated Saturn. Debilitated Saturn in UL will indicate a partner having low level of dharma. Also Ketu in UL will indicate mistake in choosing the partner. Ketu gives a very spiritual partner but on the other end it is very whimsical also as the native may not have any attraction or desire towards physical pleasure.

3. Rahu is aspecting Venus and Moon, two most sensual planets representing Jala tattva. As per Lalitha Upanishad, Rahu is a Vayu tattva planet and Vayu is inimical to jala tattva as vayu help jala to evaporate. So this indicates two things related to sensual pleasure:
Either the native herself will not be having desire for sensual pleasures or the circumstances will be such that the person will not be able to fulfill the sensual desires. Unless and until it is remedied, physical pleasure is totally denied. UL and A7 are connected to each other, hence physical desires are present on your end but circumstances will deny it.

4. You DK Mercury is at Rasi Sandhi. This indicates sufferings in relationships and marriage, unless Jupiter, Venus, 7th lord or UL lord are not strong and well placed. Now Jupiter is neecha retrograde in 7th which seems to be a good placement as Jupiter will behave as an exalted planet but this retrograde Jupiter gets exalted in Navamsa and will behave as debilitated Jupiter. Hence instead of this exaltation to give Neechabhanga Rajayoga, actually its giving Rajabhanga yoga, making Jupiter very weak. Venus is badhakesha herself and is aspected by Rahu and placed in badhaka sign too. Hence Venus is also not well placed and is UL lord. Planet in UL will behave as debilitated Saturn which i have already explained earlier.
5. Saturn and Ketu is conjoined in the invisible half of the chart, which is Pitr dosha. As this dosha is in invisible half of the chart, it will be activated after the death of mother. Once this yoga is activated, financial stability and permanent residence at one place is badly effected.

Remedies in the next post :)
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Re: Divorce and Re-marriage

Postby star » Fri Jul 08, 2011 9:21 pm

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Re: Divorce and Re-marriage

Postby Priyansh Valecha » Sun Jul 10, 2011 10:29 pm

Namaste Star,
See Ketu in UL can give two things, either a spiritual partner or mistake in choosing the partner. Now it depends how strong Jupiter, Venus, 7th lord, Darakaraka and UL Lord are........ If they all or few of them are weak then definitely it could give mistake in choosing the partner. Especially if Jupiter, Venus and 7th lord is weak, then it can indicate the same as mentioned above, else somehow the inner instinct or wisdom will save the person.
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Re: Divorce and Re-marriage

Postby eena64 » Thu Jul 14, 2011 11:54 pm

Namaskar Govardhan Ji and Rajat Ji.

Thank you for giving the inputs. Well it is definitely depressing to see my life like that. Infact, I do get instincts that the sexual part of my life is cursed and it will never happen, be it anybody. I feel I wil suffer throughout my life and will die alone as well. I feel I may not meet another good person in my life. I feel so depressed when I see other couples having a good normal life. Is there anything I can do to change it. Would numerology help - changing my name so that it brings certain benefits - if yes, please suggest me some good names. Externally, what are the things that I can do to improve my situation? I would like to work on that because I dont want to give up on my life. I am willing to work hard (which seems to be inevitable in my case anyways).


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Re: Divorce and Re-marriage

Postby govardhanvt » Fri Jul 15, 2011 7:35 am

Renu

I always tell my clients, and friend whoever come to me for consultation.

This Physical body is not ours. The soul has no name and is not ours. The name that is given to us is by another human just to attract our attention. The name is some thing like a magnet. When it brought near a iron piece, it gets attracted. When this body and soul is not ours, then it should belong to someone else, that is God. When the body and soul is that of God ,why unnecessarily worry . God Knows what he needs to do for the body . At an appropriate time he would give whatever it is required to the body , as it is his. He knows what to give and take. So there is nothing bad to feel . YOu had been seeing people around you. Thank God this body of yours and soul is placed in better pedestal than others. Look there are many disabled , crippled people around you, who are in more distress situation,who are still happy and not minding their disability. Hence do not worry. Have faith in God, he will certainly give you all that desire. You have good time . Now God wants you to concentrate on your studies, and other aspects of life, so that you have a pleasant future in the days to come. A simple remedy for your problem. Keep on saying "JAI HANUMAN" as many times as you can within your heart. See how all you cross all hurdles in life . I see a very bright future for you in the days to come
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Re: Divorce and Re-marriage

Postby eena64 » Fri Jul 22, 2011 2:44 am

rajatkapoor5 wrote:Dear Renu,
Namaste,
First of all, i am really saddened by reading the event details in your marital life. I wish i could have seen your chart before the marriage. But this is how destiny is and we all in some way or other become prey to destiny. Before giving my inputs on your chart, i want to mention that i can be bit straight forward in reading the chart. Don't get depressed with it but just understand the reality of life and adapt your self according to it. Also i will suggest to perform the remedies prescribed by me in this post. Now here are my inputs:
1. There is Sarpa Dosha in your chart as there are three or more malefics in kendra to Lagna. This Sarpa dosha is broken by Jupiter being placed in 7th house, but this Jupiter is very weak and needs to be strengthened to break this yoga. Also i will suggest you to chant two mantras on regular basis with full faith in God. The mantras are:
(i) Aastikam Munirajam Namo Namah
(ii) Om namo bhagvate balabhadraya

2. Saturn is your Atmakaraka. The person having Saturn as Atmakaraka is bound to see lots of sorrow in life as it is the unfulfilled karma left. Now this Saturn is with UL so the unfulfilled karma is related to marriage. Now Saturn is in Libra sign, in it exaltation sign, but as it is retrograde, will give results of a debilitated Saturn. Debilitated Saturn in UL will indicate a partner having low level of dharma. Also Ketu in UL will indicate mistake in choosing the partner. Ketu gives a very spiritual partner but on the other end it is very whimsical also as the native may not have any attraction or desire towards physical pleasure.

3. Rahu is aspecting Venus and Moon, two most sensual planets representing Jala tattva. As per Lalitha Upanishad, Rahu is a Vayu tattva planet and Vayu is inimical to jala tattva as vayu help jala to evaporate. So this indicates two things related to sensual pleasure:
Either the native herself will not be having desire for sensual pleasures or the circumstances will be such that the person will not be able to fulfill the sensual desires. Unless and until it is remedied, physical pleasure is totally denied. UL and A7 are connected to each other, hence physical desires are present on your end but circumstances will deny it.

4. You DK Mercury is at Rasi Sandhi. This indicates sufferings in relationships and marriage, unless Jupiter, Venus, 7th lord or UL lord are not strong and well placed. Now Jupiter is neecha retrograde in 7th which seems to be a good placement as Jupiter will behave as an exalted planet but this retrograde Jupiter gets exalted in Navamsa and will behave as debilitated Jupiter. Hence instead of this exaltation to give Neechabhanga Rajayoga, actually its giving Rajabhanga yoga, making Jupiter very weak. Venus is badhakesha herself and is aspected by Rahu and placed in badhaka sign too. Hence Venus is also not well placed and is UL lord. Planet in UL will behave as debilitated Saturn which i have already explained earlier.
5. Saturn and Ketu is conjoined in the invisible half of the chart, which is Pitr dosha. As this dosha is in invisible half of the chart, it will be activated after the death of mother. Once this yoga is activated, financial stability and permanent residence at one place is badly effected.

Remedies in the next post :)


Namaste Rajat ji,

Even though it doesn't sound great, I really appreciate you giving me honest feedback. I feel, when astrologers tell something only to make me happy, it raises expectations and when you don't see results accordingly, it leads to bigger disappointments. I would rather like to know the truth and work on adjusting myself than living in false hope. I sincerely thank you for telling me everything honestly. I eagerly look forward to remedies. Is there anyway I could make changes to my horoscope defects - make my life better? Thank you for your valuable time.

warm regards,
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Re: Divorce and Re-marriage

Postby Priyansh Valecha » Fri Jul 22, 2011 11:34 am

Dear Eena,
I have seen that your birth time needs to be rectified by 3 odd minutes. Please answer few questions which i will be asking here and please tell me some major events of your life before marriage. The questions are:
1. Are you very stubborn in nature?
2. How was the period from 2001-2008 for you financially?
3. Tell me how these periods were for you financially:
2008 june to till now & Dec 2002 - November 2003
4. Are you very soft hearted and people get into arguments unnecessarily with you?
5. You are unable to understand the source of the problems in your life most of the time?

Even though it doesn't sound great, I really appreciate you giving me honest feedback. I feel, when astrologers tell something only to make me happy, it raises expectations and when you don't see results accordingly, it leads to bigger disappointments. I would rather like to know the truth and work on adjusting myself than living in false hope. I sincerely thank you for telling me everything honestly. I eagerly look forward to remedies. Is there anyway I could make changes to my horoscope defects - make my life better? Thank you for your valuable time.


Yes it doesn't look good but i always believe in giving the real outlook from the chart which i see. See life is not easy for anyone and each n everyone is having problems in this world. This is also a truth of this life that not everyone is having a married life or physical happiness or wealth or good career..... It always better to accept that this thing is not destined for us instead of fighting and taking false hopes for certain things.
I will give certain remedies which will make u feel happy and contended. Also concentrate yourself more towards spirituality. Once you will answer my questions asked above.... i will be able to give more clear feedback about the future and about the time period for future.
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Re: Divorce and Re-marriage

Postby eena64 » Sat Jul 23, 2011 12:21 am

Namaskar Rajat ji,

Here are some important details:

1. Are you very stubborn in nature?
Yes. I like to do things my own way. I usually take a lot of advice and do what I like. But I am easy to manipulate as well. I get convinced very easily if told in the right way and respectfully.

2. How was the period from 2001-2008 for you financially?

2001 to 2003 first half was a little tough. I was in 12th std. Studying in junior college. I was extremely depressed all the time because I could not study at all. Although I was a very good student until my 10th std, my 11th and 12th std were horrible years for me. I just managed to pass.

2003-2006 I was doing my bachelors degree in business management. I obviously had no money or source of income (coming from a very conservative middle class family, I had no pocket money.

2006-2008: In May of 2006 I got my first job and started earning money. I was very happy then because I could buy everything I wanted. I used to spend my entire salary because that was the first time I had gotten hands on my own hard earned money. I spent lavishly.

2008 April 21st 4:03 am was my marriage muhurtam.
I got married to him – his details are – 12 August 1979 Tirupati - Andhrapradesh 12:07 am
My details are 22 July 1985 6:15 am Rajahmundry, Andhrapradesh

3. Tell me how these periods were for you financially:

2008 June to till now – Financially it was not too great. I was jobless and visa less to work in US. I went to US on 5th June

2008. My husband did not help me to get a work visa. I had no work permit so no job and no income of my own. My husband was doing okay, but he had lot of debts on his side too.

Dec 2002 - November 2003
Terrible period. I was in my 12th std uptill April 2003. Life was a living hell at that time. I also did terribly first year of my college. After second year onwards, i started doing much better and even stood 2nd in college in one of the semesters.

4. Are you very soft hearted and people get into arguments unnecessarily with you?

I am very soft hearted. I feel bad easily even for people who have done bad to me. I feel emotionally upset and sad when I see anybody in pain. I love small animals crazily like cats, squirrels, rabbits, rats and sometimes small dogs. I feel sorry for them too if I see them being tortured or in any sort of pain.
I am also extremely sensitive and short tempered. If anybody even makes a small comment or joke on my weaknesses I get extremely angry and shower verbal anger on them immediately without thinking of the consequences. I have always repented saying certains things to people after I have said it. But most of the times I have said things only when people are impolite to me and misbehave or insult me in public.

5. You are unable to understand the source of the problems in your life most of the time?
Yes. I don’t understand why I am facing these problems. I always wonder why everything has to go wrong in my life. I feel that I have to work really hard and results for me are always unfair.

Other important dates:
I got engaged on February 9th 2008.
We travelled internationally for our honeymoon to Mauritius (again that was my first international trip in life)
- 25th April 2008 to 1st May 2008
May 27th 2011 - Early in the morning at around 4 am to 5 am or 6 am (dont remember exact) I left my husbands house in Colorado with a suitcases and a decision to divorce him once and for all and not prolong this marriage anymore.

These are some details I could think of. There are no great moments in my life I can think of.


Thank you so much for your support and guidance. Please let me know if these details are helpful.

Warm regards,
R
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Re: Divorce and Re-marriage

Postby ZERO » Sat Jul 23, 2011 4:47 am

It sounds like black magic to me.
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Re: Divorce and Re-marriage

Postby Priyansh Valecha » Sat Jul 23, 2011 5:27 pm

eena64 wrote:Namaskar Rajat ji,

Here are some important details:

1. Are you very stubborn in nature?
Yes. I like to do things my own way. I usually take a lot of advice and do what I like. But I am easy to manipulate as well. I get convinced very easily if told in the right way and respectfully.

[Rajat] Yes quite clear from the navamsa kundali. Rahu in Lagna makes you very stubborn and Mercury's aspect on Navamsa Lagna makes you calculative. Yes people born on the day of Moon get easily convinced as their mind is totally under the effect of the movement of Moon. You must have experienced that during Amavasya and tithi closer to Amavasya, you will be having very bad mood and will not be able to concentrate on things at all.

2. How was the period from 2001-2008 for you financially?

2001 to 2003 first half was a little tough. I was in 12th std. Studying in junior college. I was extremely depressed all the time because I could not study at all. Although I was a very good student until my 10th std, my 11th and 12th std were horrible years for me. I just managed to pass.

[Rajat] Yes this period has to be a tough one. Despite Mars as yogakaraka is neecha and also mars aspecting navamsha lagna by rasi drsti making it a very tough time.

2003-2006 I was doing my bachelors degree in business management. I obviously had no money or source of income (coming from a very conservative middle class family, I had no pocket money.

2006-2008: In May of 2006 I got my first job and started earning money. I was very happy then because I could buy everything I wanted. I used to spend my entire salary because that was the first time I had gotten hands on my own hard earned money. I spent lavishly.

[Rajat] Yes, using the vara chakra principle, Rahu comes in the Navamsa Lagna as Jupiter is in 10th house. Hence, Rahu takes full control on 10th house of Navamsa chart, making you a lavish spender. But believe me this is a kind of a blessing also, as only the person who has flow of money can spend hence this guarantees that flow of money will always be there in your life.

2008 April 21st 4:03 am was my marriage muhurtam.
I got married to him – his details are – 12 August 1979 Tirupati - Andhrapradesh 12:07 am
My details are 22 July 1985 6:15 am Rajahmundry, Andhrapradesh

3. Tell me how these periods were for you financially:

2008 June to till now – Financially it was not too great. I was jobless and visa less to work in US. I went to US on 5th June

2008. My husband did not help me to get a work visa. I had no work permit so no job and no income of my own. My husband was doing okay, but he had lot of debts on his side too.

Dec 2002 - November 2003
Terrible period. I was in my 12th std uptill April 2003. Life was a living hell at that time. I also did terribly first year of my college. After second year onwards, i started doing much better and even stood 2nd in college in one of the semesters.

4. Are you very soft hearted and people get into arguments unnecessarily with you?

I am very soft hearted. I feel bad easily even for people who have done bad to me. I feel emotionally upset and sad when I see anybody in pain. I love small animals crazily like cats, squirrels, rabbits, rats and sometimes small dogs. I feel sorry for them too if I see them being tortured or in any sort of pain.
I am also extremely sensitive and short tempered. If anybody even makes a small comment or joke on my weaknesses I get extremely angry and shower verbal anger on them immediately without thinking of the consequences. I have always repented saying certains things to people after I have said it. But most of the times I have said things only when people are impolite to me and misbehave or insult me in public.

5. You are unable to understand the source of the problems in your life most of the time?
Yes. I don’t understand why I am facing these problems. I always wonder why everything has to go wrong in my life. I feel that I have to work really hard and results for me are always unfair.

Other important dates:
I got engaged on February 9th 2008.
We travelled internationally for our honeymoon to Mauritius (again that was my first international trip in life)
- 25th April 2008 to 1st May 2008
May 27th 2011 - Early in the morning at around 4 am to 5 am or 6 am (dont remember exact) I left my husbands house in Colorado with a suitcases and a decision to divorce him once and for all and not prolong this marriage anymore.

These are some details I could think of. There are no great moments in my life I can think of.


Thank you so much for your support and guidance. Please let me know if these details are helpful.

Warm regards,
R


Now here are few points i want to mention about your chart:

1. Venus is badhakesha and is placed in badhaka sthana and aspected by Rahu. Malefic if placed in 12th from badhakesha indicates wrath of deity. Here in your chart, Rahu is placed in 12th from Venus, which is badhakesha. This indicates a curse of serpent deity or a serpent having touched the image of the deity making it impure. Venus is the badhakesha and is in own house of Venus, hence the angry deity is Annapurneshwari. Also as Badhakesha is in 11th house, deity's wealth has been stolen or misappropriated. This property is Mula (Badhakesha in fixed sign) which means grains, trees or lands associated with the temple of the deity. This is a major cause of your suffering.

Remedies:
1. Chant Guru Mantra and take Guru diksha as soon as possible. Guru Mantra till you don't take diksha is "Om Dakshinamurtaye Namah". Chant this mantra 108 times daily.
2. Chant this beejakshahara mantra "Om Hreem Namah". Start from Friday.
3. Chant this jyotirlinga mantra "Om Namah Shivaya Namah Somnathaya" Start from Monday.
4. Chant this gati mantra "klim parasuramaya namah" & Ista devata mantra "Om namo bhagvate rsikesaya". Start from Friday
5. Chant this mantra "Om Ghrini Mitraya Namah". Start from Sunday.
6. Keep performing all the remedies suggested in the first post.
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Re: Divorce and Re-marriage

Postby Priyansh Valecha » Sat Apr 07, 2012 11:06 am

Dear Renu,
I would like to know before giving any further prediction, that have you performed the remedies suggested by me?
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Re: Divorce and Re-marriage

Postby eena64 » Wed Apr 11, 2012 5:45 pm

Namaste Rajat ji,

I have not been able to find a guru for diksha. I did not do the above remedies, I will be honest. The amount of stress of nearing my graduation and the events in my life have turned me into a losing interest towards praying. But there is a part of me that wants to change. I want to get up every morning and do my prayers like used to back in India. I stopped praying to god after I saw all the negative energy in my life. However, I have told myself that as soon as I finish my school - graduation is on May 11th, i will start praying everyday. I am going to try.... i am sorry for not having done my part. I am trying to bring that focus on god but it has been extremely difficult for me to dedicate myself. before my marriage, i was regular in my prayers to god. I dont want to lie.... but i feel very nervous abt my future on a constant basis and that is the reason why I posted. I need to find a job soon to be able to payback loans. I am so overwhelmed with graduation, visa ending and not being able to find a job and being rejected...that I cannot focus on praying to god. But atleast if my graduation is done, I will have some time to dedicate to prayer.

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Re: Divorce and Re-marriage

Postby Priyansh Valecha » Thu Apr 12, 2012 11:02 am

Dear Renu,
Namaste,
I can understand it very well about the way you have suffered in life. I will suggest you once again to chant the mantras provided by me and trust me your life is going to be perfect on all aspects. You will not only get job but also be able to be remarried and have a good marital life.
One more mantra i would like to add as a remedy and that is

Om bhur bhuva svaha sadasivaya namaha
All the very best for your future and May lord Krsna bless you.
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Re: Divorce and Re-marriage

Postby eena64 » Thu Apr 12, 2012 8:34 pm

Namaste Rajat ji,

Thank you for your quick reply. I had a question in mind regarding these mantras

Remedies:
1. Chant Guru Mantra and take Guru diksha as soon as possible. Guru Mantra till you don't take diksha is "Om Dakshinamurtaye Namah". Chant this mantra 108 times daily.
2. Chant this beejakshahara mantra "Om Hreem Namah". Start from Friday.
3. Chant this jyotirlinga mantra "Om Namah Shivaya Namah Somnathaya" Start from Monday.
4. Chant this gati mantra "klim parasuramaya namah" & Ista devata mantra "Om namo bhagvate rsikesaya". Start from Friday
5. Chant this mantra "Om Ghrini Mitraya Namah". Start from Sunday
6. Om bhur bhuva svaha sadasivaya namaha

Could you kindly tell me how many times to chant these mantras and if it is specific what time of the day morning or evening?
Do i have to chant all of these everyday? If yes, how many times for each.

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Re: Divorce and Re-marriage

Postby eena64 » Wed Apr 18, 2012 6:31 am

Namaste Rajat ji,

Could you please tell me how to do these mantras? Should I chant all of them everyday 108 times? Or one of them each day 108 times, I am confused. Please help.

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Re: Divorce and Re-marriage

Postby Priyansh Valecha » Wed Apr 18, 2012 11:12 am

All my replies are in brown color.
1. Chant Guru Mantra and take Guru diksha as soon as possible. Guru Mantra till you don't take diksha is "Om Dakshinamurtaye Namah". Chant this mantra 108 times daily.
[Rajat] Chant this mantra from coming Sunday daily for 108 times with Rudraksha Rosary.
2. Chant this beejakshahara mantra "Om Hreem Namah". Start from Friday.
[Rajat] From coming friday daily for 108 times with Kamalgatta or Sphatik Rosary.
3. Chant this jyotirlinga mantra "Om Namah Shivaya Namah Somnathaya" Start from Monday.
[Rajat] Chant this mantra from coming Monday daily for 108 times with Rudraksha Rosary.
4. Chant this gati mantra "klim parasuramaya namah" & Ista devata mantra "Om namo bhagvate rsikesaya". Start from Friday
[Rajat] Chant this mantra from coming Friday daily for 108 times each with Tulsi Rosary.
5. Chant this mantra "Om Ghrini Mitraya Namah". Start from Sunday.
[Rajat] Chant this mantra from coming Sunday daily for 108 times with Rudraksha Rosary.
6. Om bhur bhuva svaha sadasivaya namaha
[Rajat] Chant this mantra from coming monday daily for 108 times with Rudraksha Rosary.

Start chanting the mantras from the mentioned day and then keep chanting all of them daily. It will take 2 odd hours time daily. Try to reschedule your day and wake up early in the morning, take shower and then chant the mantras without having anything in stomach. If you start feeling very hungry after the mantra chant, understand it that the mantras are working superb for you.
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Re: Divorce and Re-marriage

Postby eena64 » Thu Jun 13, 2013 10:26 pm

Namaskar dear astrologers,

I wanted to write to you all since it has almost been a year. It took me close to 1 year to land a job.
(July 22 1985, 6:15 am, Rajahmundry, Andhrapradesh)
I finally started working in Newyork on Mar 18 2013. No Mr. Right in my life yet. Hopefully someday

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